Sunday, March 9, 2014

Trees, Tears and More Tears, Oh my!

It should not come as a surprise to any of you that I got my inspiration for this post from Twitter. Go figure:) It all started with a tweet from the incredibly talented yet equally terrifying Jasinda Wilder. Her tweet was simple enough. It read as follows: @JasindaWilder: I’m wondering if any of you might like a new book from me this week? With 1 of your favorite characters in it, a book I wrote just for you. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…instant panic. You picked up on the fact that I called her ‘talented,’ yes? Did you pick up on the ‘terrifying’ part as well? If you have read Falling Into You then you know exactly what I’m talking about. If not, buckle up kiddos.

Let’s start from the very beginning, shall we? I should start by copping to the fact that I’m a certifiable book wimp. There was a time in my life (not so long ago) that I would beg Kat and Ava to read a book before me to make sure I could handle it. I have several criteria that I need in a book. I won’t give you the list in its entirety but I NEED a happily ever after (preferably in the form of a big, fat epilogue—think Reckless), and I prefer not to be emotionally traumatized when reading. Like I said: Book Wimp.

SO Falling Into You was released and it was all everyone was talking about. I was intrigued so I went to my go-tos…had they been on the same continent and in the same room when I asked them, I’m pretty sure they would have shared a look that said, “She has lost her mind. No fucking way can she handle this book.” I think they said as much—in a very nice way and Kat may have even encouraged me with a “Okaaaaaay…” (more of a “Holy fuck. I can’t wait for her meltdown after reading this.”). I was feeling brave. I could do this. I could put my big girl pants on and make Kat and Ava proud. I could do this! How bad could it be?

All was right with my world. And then IT happened. If you have read Falling Into You, you know what “it” is. That event in and of itself brought the ugly cry. I remember sobbing so hard that I could barely catch my breath. This may sound dramatic but it is true. So. Much. Pain. After I put my Kindle aside to compose myself…I remember thinking: “Well, okay. It’s okay. I got through it. I can do this. Look at me!” And then she did it again! Well, not “it” but she brought the pain. SO. MUCH. PAIN.

Now do you understand why I referred to her as the incredibly talented yet equally terrifying Jasinda Wilder? She draws you in by writing these characters you fall in love with and then she crushes you bit by bit to the point that there isn’t enough Advil in your medicine cabinet to dull the pain and that you can’t leave your house for at least 24 hours until your face returns to its pre- Falling Into You status. You finish Falling Into You and your head and face hurt from the crying but more than anything—more than anything: your heart hurts. It genuinely hurts. That is the power of Jasinda Wilder.

Now can you see why that seemingly innocent tweet terrified me? If a reader could have PTSD from reading a book, I have it from reading Falling Into You. I am so glad that I read this book but I have not been able to pick up this book again and I love to read books again and again. I just haven’t been able to do it again with Falling Into You. You thought I was kidding about being a book wimp, didn’t you? Nope. Here’s another example of my wimpiness: I have Falling Into Us on my Kindle and I have NOT been able to open it. I know what kind of pain awaits me in that book and I don’t know if I can take it. I know my limits and I think that the pain from Falling Into You is my hard limit.

Do I one-click every book that Jasinda Wilder writes? Yes! I one-click because she is beyond talented and one day…maybe one day I will grow into my big girl pants and be able to go where she takes me without needing to take anti-anxiety meds. But like I said, I’m a book wimp!!! I own said wimpiness. So Jasinda writes a book titled, Wounded…is she insane? The title alone is enough to have me running for the hills. Of course I one-clicked before running to the hills but still…running. She scares me. Again: book wimp!!!

So there ya go. That’s a quick glimpse into the crazy that is my brain. I still have not fully recovered from what she did to me in Falling Into You. I realize that not everyone needs rainbows and sunshine and to those people: This book is for you! If you have not read Colton and Nell’s story, I highly suggest that you one-click the terrifying perfection that is Falling Into You:


So to answer Jasinda’s tweet regarding wanting another book from her? I resolutely say YES!!!!! I say yes because I know you guys are WAY braver than me and I say yes because the profound impact she has had on my reading soul is a testament to her brilliance as a writer. The fact that I have a visceral reaction at the mere mention of her books speaks to her talent…as terrifying as it may be. You know the pictures you see of the children who are screaming and crying because they are terrified of Santa Clause but they also love him dearly because he brings the goods? Jasinda…you are my Santa and I am that snot nosed kid flailing on your lap. I love you…I hate you…I love you…Aghhhhhh!!!! I’m ready for Christmas morning. Bring the new book, Jasinda. Just bring it.!!! 

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